Sometimes I wonder where the days go. Yesterday was one of those days that's busy, yet I really didn't get all that much accomplished. My walk was split in two, an hour in the morning and an hour in the afternoon, which broke up the day even more (though was quite enjoyable.) I had practice in the evening and came home to most of our kids, plus a couple of extras, watching the Cubs game and they had saved me a seat. Usually when the kids have friends over I make myself scarce and just check in with them occasionally, but with new romances left and right in our house we have young people who want to get to know us (and vice versa) and want the chance to make good impressions.
I hand quilted for a bit, but this outer border is giving me fits. It's so hard to see the markings that I really need to re-mark it but I'm having trouble with the white pencils that I'm finding in my sewing room. They are NOT wanting to mark the fabric well enough and the one that I normally use seems to have gone AWOL.
I do have a wonderful little zip pouch that I keep my marking pencils and sharpeners in, but, in an effort to organize my sewing room, I put it somewhere for safekeeping. Particularly safe for the pencils it seems because if I cannot use them, they will remain intact!
I'm babysitting this afternoon and will have to get dinner ready while he's here. Tonight is the last Awana night and it's Awards Night so I will be packing up Ruthie right after dinner to go watch Lucas receive his awards.
And, of course, there are sinkloads of dishes (I do dishes at least 3 times a day,) a couple of loads of laundry to be done, the ever present straightening and picking up and assorted kids demands (one of the more pleasant distractions of the day!)
I'm having trouble coming up with a plan for the day so I guess that means it's a "wing it" day. I know what chores have to be done and will do those as time and energy permit. In and among the chores will be finishing the next set of pincushion tops (35 of them.) Ideally I'd like to see them ready to stuff by the end of the day, but with all else we have going on I don't know if that will happen. I think I'll run out of sand before this set is done as well, so a bag of white sand will be on my list for shopping tomorrow. I LOVE pincushions and have some more patterns for them, perhaps a bucket full of sand waiting to be used will motivate me (I store my sand in a 5 gallon bucket courtesy of my husband, who empties them of cleaning solutions on a regular basis!)
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Time Marches On
Monday, April 28, 2008
Monday Madness
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Where to Start??
The events of the last few days have been mind-boggling. Much of it is almost too complicated to go into because without all the details one wouldn't get an accurate picture. Suffice it to say that both of our teenaged girls now have boyfriends and our oldest son is what I call "dancing around the edges" with a nice girl from church. They are clearly interested but not quite declaring themselves a couple.
In the midst of the craziness, I got a package in the mail. This came from Connie. She sent some adorable sewing cards for Ruthie and a wonderful pattern and lovely fq's for me. Thanks so much, Connie! The pattern is an interesting way to machine piece trapezoids so they make hexagons. I'm anxious to try it and will go through my fabric to see what I can find that will go with these to make this quilt.
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Trying to Stay on Task
They say if you want something done, give it to a busy person. I think there is a lot of truth to that. I'm not good at just sitting. If I'm sitting down, I'm reading a book, making a list, doing some hand sewing, planning a new project...you get the idea.
They were also hoping for some type of favor to put at each place as a momento of the luncheon. I told her about the pincushions I'd made for a guild prize several years back and she loved the idea. As they are filled with sand, they could be used as paperweights for any of the women who don't sew. If you look closely you can see the pattern printed on the paper.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
A Quick Update
Whew! Things have been busy since my last post. I've added a nice walk to each day to try to get the weight loss going again. It's been very slow going since the holidays and I'd really like to get most, if not all, of the last 17 pounds off by the time our families come in August.
I still have some organizing to do in my sewing room. I try to do it often enough so that it is not too big or overwhelming of a job. It's also much nicer to work in there when it's organized!
So today the plan is to organize in the sewing room, finish the topper, prepare for basting the album quilt, and maybe even hand quilt a bit on the flower quilt, which has been sadly neglected with the warmer weather here. And of course the usual several sinks full of dishes, couple loads of laundry and various kid tasks and chats that occur throughout the day.
Comfortably busy and full of things that make me content, a lovely way to spend the day!
Happy Quilting!
Sue and Ruthie
Monday, April 14, 2008
Ruthie's Story
In some ways, Ruthie's story began many years ago because I think that God had been preparing me for her all along.
We thought we'd already had our "surprise" over 40 baby when Lucas was born almost 4 years earlier. We actually thought about another baby after him, so he wouldn't be alone at the end of the pack (he came 6 years after our 4th child) but after a couple of years I didn't get pregnant and, as I'm well versed on fertility statistics, I knew the chance were becoming slimmer and slimmer and we mentally moved on from the baby years. We were so certain we were finished, we canceled our maternity insurance, which cut $240 a month out of our tight budget.
My husband knew I was "late" and was asking about a friend who was also late and concerned she might be pregnant. When he asked if I was still late...and I nodded my head...he then asked if I was going to take a test. I actually already had, but it was very faint and I was going to re-test the next day, but there it was. I couldn't lie, so I told him I had, and it was positive.
I was crying and shaking, afraid of surgery (both my mom and my sister had severe allergic reactions to meds post-op), and scared to death they wouldn't get the baby out in time. When the spinal didn't take right (I could still feel everything) I was put out and I woke up in a post-partum room, no husband or baby in sight.
I don't quite remember the order of some things, I do remember pretty quickly they told us about the hole in her heart. That's why she was on oxygen, though she was doing extremely well. They had brought my husband to look through the surgery doors when she was first born and he said she was screaming her head off and her arms and legs were going like crazy. Her apgars were 9 and 10, almost unheard of for a baby with Down Syndrome, especially considering the heart defect. The doctors were laughing because she'd settle for a minute, then that bottom lip would stick way out and she would begin screaming all over again. It was a look we grew accustomed to as it usually proceeded a cry when she was startled.
This was the only time I got to see her in my room, but it was the middle of the night and the floor was not busy so they brought her to me, the nurse had to stay because of the oxygen. By afternoon that day I was walking to the nursery to be with her.
I arrived the next morning to this:
My husband had just dropped me off at the hospital and had gone on with the kids to church, He wouldn't even be coming back for a couple of hours or so, the plan was that he would bring the kids home after church and then join me for a few hours in the afternoon at which time we'd figure out the rest of the day. I had no way to tell him we were coming home. I could hardly wait for him to get back!
The discharge process takes forever, by the time we were ready to leave it was about 3:00. I don't think I've ever dressed a baby so quickly in my life, I couldn't wait to get out of there. How excited the kids were when we arrived home with her! They had seen her only a couple of times through the nursery window, once from a distance the first day in the original bed and the other the night I went home. I helped bathe her, then fed her before we left and they weighed her right in front of the window and held her up for the kids so see up close. They all quite eagerly took turns holding her. Our oldest son was on a hunting trip and wouldn't be home until the next day, but the rest of us spent the entire day Sunday camped out in our bedroom. It was so good to be home!
The nurses were incredible. A couple of them would whisper to me how they "fought" at each shift change over who would get Ruthie to care for. They went out of their way to make things easy for me and to get me answers when I was having trouble asking the right questions. Though the week seemed interminable and stressful and scary at the time, I look back on it fondly now, in large part due to the wonderful care we both received.
She arrived home the Sunday before Thanksgiving. For the next couple of weeks we had to see the pediatrician every few days to have her weight and O2 sats checked. When we'd gotten through those first couple of weeks without incident, those visits weren't necessary.
Our pediatrician at the time was also a pediatric cardiologist, so he handled the first tests to find the extent of her defect. It was decided that this was not something that had to be fixed immediately (at first, there was talk of correction before she ever came home) and we could wait until after New Year's, when our new insurance would then be active.
We took her in that first week of the new year and soon after learned they wanted to do the surgery in early April. The hospital where the surgeon is was about an hour away so there was no going back and forth, I couldn't have left her there anyway. We were told she could be in for 7-10 days and to plan accordingly. Her surgery was Wednesday morning and I think Tuesday and Wednesday were two of the most stressful days I've ever had to endure.
We had been well prepared for what to expect when she came out and they explained all the tubes and wires.
Here she is on Saturday, only 3 days after open heart surgery.
Here are some pictures from our vacation in North Carolina, just a few months later.
And here are a few more current pictures.
Ruthie is doing incredibly well. In spite of the warnings that her health might be precarious (people with DS are prone to ear and respiratory infections, and a myriad of other difficulties, health-wise) she has been very healthy. She's only had a couple of colds and a short bout with the stomach flu, none of which required doctor visits.
Her fine motor skills are excellent, her gross motor skills are good. Right now we're working on running and jumping. Her speech is slow, but she knows enough sign language to get across what she wants and in the last few weeks has been attempting words much more often, using the ones she knows more regularly and often responding verbally instead of signing, which are all very encouraging. Her receptive language is excellent, it's clear she understands most, if not all, of what is said to her and around her.
There is probably much more here than there needed to be, yet I feel so much was left out. I hope that this gives those interested a sense of what absolute joy she brings to us all.
Sue
Saturday, April 12, 2008
An Immeasurable Blessing
Well, actually it is measurable...by the yard! I received a box in the mail on Thursday that I could barely lift to get into the house. I gasped when I opened it as this is what I found.
The box was stuffed full of lovely background fabric and a few pieces so pretty I may just work a quilt around them. Each appears to be about 5 yards (I measured a few of them and they all appear to be about the same size) and there are 19 cuts. These were sent to me by the same lovely lady who sent the patterns a magazines a few weeks ago and I'm awed by her thoughtfulness and generosity.
One piece is perfect for the backing of my parents' album quilt and, as I have the batting here for that, I can now baste whenever I'm ready. Once I get to the borders of the flower quilt, I will baste the album quilt so it is ready to go.
As I "inventory" my quilts in the works, I'm also daydreaming of a few new tops. With the toppers well under way and the album quilt ready to be basted, I'm not feeling so pressured, time-wise, about finishing in time for the party. The party projects will be top priority, but small breaks to spend on other things will not pose a problem.
Poor Ruthie is having an "off" day today. I think she is just tired and is in my lap right now, something that is rare during the daytime hours. I plan to post her story on Monday or Tuesday. I need a block of time to do it justice and I think I finally have the time.
Our van is being worked on today, we are praying that there are no other problems found along the way and that he is able to do the work safely and accurately. He seems certain I will be shopping with my van on errand day this week.
Ruthie went a stretch of time where she didn't nap, but lately has been napping occasionally again. It seemed awfully quiet one day and when I went looking for her, this is what I found. She was curled up on her brother's bed with her baby for a little snooze.
And now I'll run. I would like to make as big a dent as possible in the quilting on the flower quilt this weekend...and won't get that done sitting here!
Happy Quilting!
Sue
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Keeping Our Fingers Crossed...and some quilting
Yesterday we waited not so patiently for a tow truck to take our van. Late Sunday afternoon, our daughter's friends came back to take another look. The verdict? Not the worst, but not good either. As one said "The good news is, it's the flywheel. The bad news is, it's the flywheel." He was able to hand crank the engine so we know it hadn't seized, which was the biggest worry.
My husband asked them if he could have it towed somewhere to make it easier for them to work on, and one of them has a heated, well-lit garage they use for working on cars so they were glad to have him do that.
While riding to the mall on Monday, we heard from one of them. He said it would be good if the van could be delivered between 4:30 and 5:00 on Tuesday. My husband called to make the arrangements, but afterward thought he made a mistake and said 3:30 to 4:00 to the towing company. No matter. By the time they arrived and got it hooked up, it would probably be close to 4:30 anyway, and our oldest son was going along to help push it into the garage. If the homeowner wasn't there yet, he could officially "take delivery" of the van at the other end.
4:00 came and went. No tow truck. I assumed that my husband gave them the correct time after all. 5:00 came and went. No tow truck. I texted my husband, who called the towing company. Apparently they lost the order or just forgot but someone would be out in 10 minutes. 20 minutes came and went. No tow truck. My husband had gotten a staticky message on his cell phone that he couldn't understand from the towing company so called me to see if they'd come yet. They hadn't. He called them, agitated by this time, then called me back. They said the tow truck got a flat tire, but it was fixed and they were on their way, they'd be here in 10 minutes.
My husband told me he gave them our home phone in case they got another flat tire, LOL, which did make me laugh, which made him laugh which was a good thing, he was pretty irritated by this time.
20 minutes later the tow truck arrived, and the rest of it went without incident.
Our driveway is completely empty at the moment, a rarity here. We've told the young men to take their time, we've been without it for this long, a few more weeks won't matter. We know the plan is to get it running this weekend, whether or not that happens remains to be seen. Then the brakes need replacing, which they've also agreed to do.
We are hoping the parts don't amount to too terribly much. While the total will be vastly smaller than if we had to take it somewhere, it will still be a pricy fix.
We're still not out of the woods, yet, but they felt pretty certain they can now solve the problems.
And now quilting! I've been reading some this last week so that eats into my quilting time, but I have 3 more toppers ready to applique and have started one of them. I will probably work on that mostly today, though will also try to fit in some hand quilting on the purple flower quilt. I'm getting anxious to get that one finished.
Since my machine is running again, I was anxious to use it and I finished the album quilt for my parents. This will be the next top to be quilted, hence the push to finish the flower quilt. I'm hoping to get batting for this tomorrow and will see if I have anything big enough for backing. I might have to wait until next week for that, but the flower quilt won't be done before then anyway.
The leaf block pieces are almost all basted, I have enough done to start doing some of the blocks, so I'll be working on that soon as well. I need to do a check again to see what projects are in the works and what the next steps are and I have a few other patterns marked in books and magazines that I may start doing prepwork on if I have fabric that will work.
It's a dreary day here, perfect for finishing up a few chores, then curling up with some handwork, which is exactly what I plan to do!
Happy Quilting!
Sue
Saturday, April 5, 2008
Small Miracles
I had one today. I was greedily hoping for two, but the second seems not to be forthcoming.
The missing miracle was a fix to my van. A friend of my daughter's graciously offered to fix it for us, but so far has been unable to solve the problem. We are likely many weeks, if not months, away from affording a mechanic to fix it, so we're a little disappointed, though very grateful to this young man who has given up his Saturday afternoon to try to help us out. I don't believe he's given up, but will need to consult with another friend who has more training and experience. He had high hopes of getting it running and then moving it to his well-lighted and well-stocked garage to do the brakes.
I stayed up late sewing last night. I was working on the album quilt for my parents' anniversary. I made a nice dent in the blocks. I was thinking while I was sewing and knew that I'd have a good amount of time today and again tomorrow for sewing. I started to think about my poor, disabled machine that I've been missing so dearly. I had decided some time ago that I would try again to fix it before giving up and bringing it somewhere (again, a fix that would have to wait) and I decided last night that today would be the day.
I pulled it out of the rolling case it resides in when not in use and started going through the motions. I knew I had done everything I knew how to do the first time around and even tried to turn the knob a few times over the last 3 months to no avail
I plugged it in, heavy hearted, and tried to turn the wheel...which still wouldn't move. I pulled out the bobbin casing and stepped on the foot pedal, expecting the buzz that happens when the machine won't move and then the stop of the buzz that indicates the machine is protecting itself by disengaging. BUT, IT MOVED. The needle popped up and stopped. I gingerly stepped on the pedal and watched as the needle moved effortlessly up and down. Could it really be? With fumbling fingers I replaced the bobbin casing, put in a bobbin and threaded the machine and watched with glee as it sewed perfect stitch, the motor quietly humming along.
Unfortunately the last van update isn't sounding so good, it could be a major mechanical problem which I assume isn't likely to be fixed sitting in our driveway. We could be van-less for quite some time, but so far we've managed to get where we need to go, I'm sure that will continue.
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Quilting Update
As you can see, I've had a little bit of help. Thanks so much to Amy, a blogger recommended to me by Bren, she got my sidebar elements back to where they belong. I'll keep the new look for a while because I'm afraid to touch anything, LOL, and someday maybe I'll tire of it and get brave enough to try a new template!